Three Months In: Hitting the Wall

Turns out, everyone was right.

At nearly the three-month mark in my Paris journey, I’ve officially hit the wall—that moment so many expats warned me about. And I have to admit: they weren’t wrong.

A stunning luncheon with the American Club of Paris. Not a bad place to reflect on life abroad.

Up until now, everything was new, exciting, a whirlwind of adjustment and discovery. But lately, it’s felt a bit more…real. The honeymoon phase is over. I’ve found myself wondering, What am I doing here? and Is this really my life now? And the answer, of course, is yes.

But don’t worry—I’m not packing my bags.

The truth is, life here has become routine. I walk more, I frequent the same markets, and I’ve carved out small rituals like getting my hair and nails done on certain days. I haven’t quite created a social circle yet, but I’m starting to push myself to venture out more.

This past week, I attended a luncheon, visited the incredible American Library (yes, I’ll be joining their book clubs come fall!), and even peeked into a gallery opening with the American Club of Paris. I'm putting myself out there—step by step—and it’s making a difference.

The view just outside the American Library in Paris—where books and the Eiffel Tower share the same breathtaking block.

There’s a lot more I share in this week’s episode, including an encounter with a fellow American at a café that left me both amused and a little reflective. I also talk about the reality of living with less stuff, less space, and sometimes, less certainty—but also more sunlight, more walking, and slowly, more courage.

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🤍, Lois